Bringing Things to Light

Bringing Things to Light

In this age of instant information, anyone can broadcast their opinions to the world, or use AI to create buzz, whether true or not. The power to control and manipulate information has never been more available, nor more dangerous. Disinformation and misinformation...
Flying Your Freak Flag

Flying Your Freak Flag

Being liked. Being popular. Fitting in. It’s something we all crave—and those desires shape us, often more than we realize. We conform to be accepted, to succeed. And once we’re rewarded for fitting in, it becomes even harder to step outside the mold. Bit by bit, we...
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The most common image of power? A pyramid or ladder, where those on the lower rungs look up, waiting to be asked, promoted, or invited. It’s easy to shrink in the face of someone else’s authority, hesitant to speak, unsure if we belong at the table. But using power...
How to Lose Legitimacy

How to Lose Legitimacy

Years ago, I worked with a professional group that had thrived for years as an open community. Anyone could show up to the monthly meetings, share ideas, and contribute to discussions. It was messy sometimes, but that openness created real value for everyone. Then the...
The Revenge Trap

The Revenge Trap

Using power to get revenge. To silence critics. To punish opposition. These are some of the most damaging uses of power, and among the hardest to resist. Why? Because retaliation feels righteous. It feels justified. And because it’s been modeled throughout history and...